i'm a very easy going, drama free person, and, ideally, i'd like to
find someone like minded. i think i'd be happiest with someone who
has sown all the wild oats they're going to sow and has decided
that they are ready for a more grounded lifestyle. not someone who
is lazy or wants to stay home all of the time, but someone who can
be as happy at home as when we're out enjoying life. a sense of
humor and a love of my cats are absolute necessities. i don't
really have any "hobbies", but i watch entirely too much tv! i
enjoy listening to music--i really enjoy the 60's and 70's, motown,
oldies, etc. i also enjoy an occasional outing to places like pt.
reyes or bodega bay and a long drive up or down the coast is always
a good idea, right? i love visiting san francisco (like a tourist),
santa cruz (the beach boardwalk) and monterey (the aquarium). i
enjoy going to the movies, but don't do that very often. i'd like
to become more physically active in the outdoors--there is so much
to do and see and enjoy here--and it would be so much easier if i
could find someone who was interested in doing the same. i'm a
midwestern transplant (grew up in a very small kansas town)and,
although i've grown quite a bit, expanded my horizons and have
enjoyed so many life changing experiences during my time here, i've
managed to maintain my "down home" morals and values. i've been in
ca for 22 years now, and can't imagine living anywhere else on
earth. there is so much to do here and i'd really like to get out
there and experience it all! i'd love to meet a wonderful guy who's
easy going, low maintenance and ready to commit to a monogamous
relationship. ideally, i'd like to find a guy that loves to be
spoiled with attention, love and affection because that's what i
like myself. i'd never ask for more than i'm willing to give
myself. in addition to a life partner with whom i'd share my world,
i'm looking for a best friend. i don't know if that guy is really
out there, but i won't give up hoping to one day find him, capture
his heart and make him my very own! i love being a couple and i
must also admit that i love all the romance that should go along
with a loving relationship. it's been a very long time since i've
been in that kind of dream relationship, and i'd be so very happy
to find that again with someone special.<br />
although i've spent perhaps more time in bars that i should have,
that part of my life is over and i'm looking to become more
settled. i've never lived the wild gay life i've heard so much
about, but i don't think i've missed out on too much. i'm the kind
of person who one would identify as "genuine". i value
trustworthiness, loyalty and fidelity. i'm pretty particular about
the people i let into my life and i look for the same qualities i
think are my best.