i'm considered affectionate and passionate, intense and cuddly,
intellectual and creative. just finished a book, do occasional
presentations and consulting. i am *not* wealthy or even middle
class-- and hopefully that won't get in our way. economy has hit me
hard. living very frugally. no car.<br />
<br />
not a party-goer. i am an <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=intellectual">intellectual</a> -- into <a class=
"ilink" href="/interests?i=deconstruction">deconstruction</a> and
working on spaces/actions of oppression, for <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=social+justice">social justice</a>. i'm an activist
of the postcolonial type, not left or right. more into thought into
practice rather than flag-waving. i speak japanese and english, and
have traveled widely. i was born and raised in <a class="ilink"
href="/interests?i=japan">japan</a>, then <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=hawaii">hawaii</a> and <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=albuquerque">albuquerque</a>. born in japan, my
father's heritage is african-american/cherokee. my mother's is
japanese/chinese.<br />
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i'm seeking a man to enjoy romance, sharing selves, nasty
passionate and affectionate sex, quiet times, political-cultural
thought, ethnic foods, american breakfasts, television, movies,
music of all genres and global, light time in nature, travel,
thinking about the world and social justice with, coffee shops,
books and bookstores (non-fiction), activist thought (<a class=
"ilink" href="/interests?i=foucault">foucault</a>, <a class="ilink"
href="/interests?i=zizek">zizek</a>, <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=minh-ha">minh-ha</a>, <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=fanon">fanon</a> anyone?). i'm <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=political">political</a> and <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=multicultural">multicultural</a> in outlook. i love
<a class="ilink" href="/interests?i=steam+trains">steam trains</a>
and <a class="ilink" href="/interests?i=model%0arailroading">model
railroading</a>.<br />
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i'll make an interesting, politically and intellectually saavy and
different, engaging and empathic, sensitive partner. because of my
life in zen and in social justice work, some of my perspectives may
be difficult to take for some people---for others, they like it.
you??<br />
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some things:<br />
i've been a volleyball player; a <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=zen">zen</a> buddhist monk in upstate in upstate new
york; i play a bit of basic folk and classical guitar and love
<a class="ilink" href="/interests?i=music">music</a> of all genres
from around the world; have a long-time interest/love for <a class=
"ilink" href="/interests?i=steam+trains">steam trains</a>.<br />
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sex:<br />
if we are attracted to each other: my preference is for lots and
lots of kissing and *frottage grinding*, body contact, touching,
jo, 'dirty' talk, intensity, etc.<br />
not into quickies or one-nighters. more into intimacy.<br />
cuddles.<br />
i'm hiv negative. looking to be with a person see where it goes.
one guy guy here.