it's hard to summarize myself in such a limited space...but here
goes:<br />
i'm a stable, confident, warm, kind, generous, even-tempered single
guy...kinda vanilla and boring...right? however, once you get to
know me, you'll soon see that i have a kinky quirky side and am a
lot of fun. i have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor and love to
laugh. since i've been single, i've enjoyed exploring and expanding
my sensual and sexual life, and i'm not done yet. i'm pretty much
up for anything at anytime.....(well....at least once).<br />
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so what am i looking for?<br />
i'm looking for friendship, intimacy, companionship, love, and
whatever comes around....in whatever order they fall. i'm an
adventurous lover, and really enjoy sex.....i tend to take control
in the bedroom (if we actually end up in the bedroom), and really
enjoy pleasing my partner(s). i can't tell you how much i enjoy
that first kiss and the zing of that chemical connection with a new
partner.<br />
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i've been in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships, and
am really comfortable in both.<br />
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right now i'm looking for casual relationships/friendships that may
or may not turn into short or long-term relationships. i'm open to
the possibilty of a longer-term relationship, but absolutely not
obsessed or limited to looking for one.<br />
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while i'm comfortable with multiple relationships, i don't know if
i would go so far as saying that i have a poly outlook on life. i'm
certainly open to it, and will simply have to see if it's for
me.<br />
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i have two great kids (13 and 11) who are the greatest joy in my
life. they are a priority in my life, and take a good portion of my
time. i share custody with their mother, but have them roughly half
of the time.<br />
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i appreciate intelligent women, and enjoy fast-paced
random-knowledge converstations. i fully appreciate that
personality and chemistry are important for relationships, and a
strong mind and personality are a huge turn-on for me.<br />
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i'm attracted to all body sizes and shapes. but for a woman to hold
my interest, she needs to be extremely comfortable with herself and
her body.<br />
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a few additional random things about me:<br />
i love the spirit, and energy of sf....i've worked in the city, but
could never live there. i'm a confirmed "suburbanite.<br />
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i would rather go to a neighborhood dive bar than wait in line for
the hottest nightclub in town.<br />
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i love exploring new restaurants and new foods, but if i had to
choose a last meal......it would be breakfast at my favorite diner
with friends.