i've been dating a super awesome fella for over two years now who i
met here on okc. we have a wonderful, committed, <a class="ilink"
href="/interests?i=open">open</a>/<a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=poly">poly</a> relationship. (we don't live together
at the moment; however, that may change this year.) i'm looking to
meet people who embrace ethical <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=non-monogamy">non-monogamy</a> and would find it
comfortable to respect this relationship, while exploring our own
connection. at the moment, i'm open to different types of
relationship possibilities from casual to more long-term and
serious. *i'd also love to grow my community of friends who are
also exploring non-traditional relationship models.*<br />
<br />
so back to "you should message me if..."<br />
**************<br />
to be succinct: you connect with some or most of what i've shared
here and are intrigued to know more. you are sweet, witty, playful,
sexually-adventurous, <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=feminist">feminist</a>-identified, warmhearted and
have a large capacity for pleasure and love.<br />
<br />
**************<br />
to be a little more descriptive:<br />
 you value integrity, compassion, humor, strong sexual chemistry,
and clear communication highly.<br />
<br />
 you are affectionate and loving and while you might be cautious,
you aren't jaded about love. when i feel an attraction, i'm
generally not shy about expressing it. i really appreciate that
quality in others.<br />
<br />
 you are active and generally happy and like to ***do*** fun
stuff, for example, enjoying time in the outdoors, or seeing live
music, or engaging in political work/<a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=activism">activism</a>, or tackling building or other
creative projects, or traveling the world... (update: injuries this
last year and a half have slowed me down a bit. so while i still
love to do all these things, i've been figuring out how to do them
at a slower pace. note: this is also what's led me to change my
body type status from "average" to "a little extra" since i can't
get as much exercise as i used to. if this is an issue for you,
please save us both the trouble and kindly move along ;)<br />
<br />
 you are <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=bisexual">bisexual</a>, <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=queer">queer</a> or very <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=queer-friendly">queer-friendly</a> and open-minded.
i'm a true 3 on the kinsey scale; while compatibility and chemistry
is important to me, what sex or gender you are is not.<br />
<br />
 you don't require alcohol, cigarettes or other substances, or
video games to have fun.<br />
<br />
 you are a charming passionate lefty goofball.