i'm a <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=musician">musician</a>/composer/sound designer. i own
a small recording business here in oakland. i'm sort of an artsy
guy but i hate pretense and yeah i'm fully aware that my profile
pics are a touch pretentious.. but that's all i have and anyway i'm
inclined to contradict myself within minutes so they're perfect.
i'm told that i'm handsome in a <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=soccer">soccer</a> hooligan, thug, techno dj on chemo
kind of way. i'm <a class="ilink" href=
"/interests?i=english">english</a>. i have passion for food and
<a class="ilink" href="/interests?i=art">art</a> and <a class=
"ilink" href="/interests?i=music">music</a> and <a class="ilink"
href="/interests?i=soccer">soccer</a>.<br />
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i'm a full time single dad but you can rest assured that i am not
looking for a new mommy for my kids.. they have one and we are fine
and it goes without saying that i am not interested in being
someone else's daddy either. i can barely manage my own so why do i
want more;-0.<br />
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i'm passionate, complex, often very silly. light hearted and
intense but always kind and loving. self diagnosed as a probable
<a class="ilink" href="/interests?i=hopeless+romantic">hopeless
romantic</a> seeking easy conversation, shared humour, fascinating
opinions, common enthusiasms and a yearning to touch and be
touched. same things as everyone else really<br />
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i have a dirty/wicked/mischievous/silly sense of humor.. and it
gets me in trouble sometimes.<br />
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babies are terrified of me but little kids love me..<br />
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i'm no mountain lion wrestling, wilderness camping, crapping in
buckets, macho outdoorsy guy if that's your thing but neither am i
a pussy. i'm more urban that's all. i swim, i box, i play soccer.
i'm not big into animals especially wild ones..although have been
called a tiger in the bedroom on more than one occasion..;-)<br />
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i'd like to get out more. i love to go for dinner at posh joints,
sip martini's in fancy hotel bars, see movies etc.. all the normal
stuff but haven't gotten back into the groove of doing this alone..
so i stay home and work work work. i'd like to find someone who can
inspire me to get out a little more. i like my work so i'm not
complaining but really, ..please... somebody ask me out;-)<br />
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what else......?<br />
i have an ear for accents i would love to learn to speak spanish
but i'm too busy/lazy to learn.<br />
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i like to stay informed about current affairs but i'm not a burned
out overly intellectual news junky. my politics lie left of center
but i don't trust michael moore. i'm considered barely educated
since i left school when i was 16 but what i know i have learned
from living and travelling.<br />
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i had a couple of scary life changing experiences recently that
showed me a few things about perspective..so i'm putting myself out
there and who knows maybe i can find another true love before i die
and if not then a few good female friends to explore with would be
very pleasant!<br />
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i am artistic, funny, and passionate