greetings : looking to date the right woman and possibly have a
great relationship down the road when we are both ready to embrace
it together. i am definitely open to meeting more single
lesbians/bi ladies for friendship too. it can be a jungle out there
in lesbo-land...lol.<br />
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about me: i am in my early 40's, blond/blue, hwp,
employed/financially independent, good relationship with my family.
i am an east bay native and have lived here for most of my adult
life, but i grew up overseas. i have my own place and love to be at
home - but additionally love to get out there and explore
everything the bay area has to offer; wine country, restaurants,
hiking, sport outings, film festivals, live music, bbq's, game
nights with friends, farmer's markets, dive bars/pool, street fairs
etc.....the list can go on and on - we live in a fantastic place!
what do you like to do for fun? i am kind hearted, love to laugh,
enjoy engaging in meaningful conversations that transform you, have
great friends, and am emotionally stable minded. i was in a ltr for
three years that ended earlier in the year and feel like its honest
to be upfront about not wanting to rush into anything too
quick.<br />
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about who i'm looking for? i know that i am more attracted to women
who are on the feminine side of the spectrum and tend to be 5-10
years younger than me historically. someone who is a good
communicator - not an avoider and can be open about their feelings
so it doesn't have to be 24-hour therapy. i believe that friendship
should be first and a good value system is key. boundries and
respect make healthy relationships and we all have our baggage. if
you have forever baggage, drama, want threesomes with your guy,
flakey, consistently late, then i'm not the match for you. i
consider myself a sexual person - so that should definitely be
there or let's be honest and say you like each other as friends.
more friends that are real would be great!<br />
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i know the importance of having a career we all enjoy - but i'm not
looking for a workaholic...someone who appreciates a balance. if
you are constantly rearranging your schedule to spend time
together, we will probably run into some conflicts. i'll talk shop
with you - but turn the computer off eventually! i also think it's
important to have our own friends and interests, but make time for
each other too. i would prefer that you are out to your family and
friends. i am and have this work behind me, and moreover believe
that's just necessary at this point in my interest for
compatibility or even fun dating. i applaud the ladies who are just
coming out, i am just in a different place! i enjoy going to lgbt
events in the community and it would be great if you are aware of
our pride. bonus points if you enjoy live music and independent
films/documentaries. brainiacs with a quick wit quirky smarty pants
type of humor are turn-ons and have made me weak in the knees..lol.
two huge thumbs up for brunettes - guess we are attracted to what
we are not...aforementioned...i'm blonde and femme as posted in the
profile.<br />
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looking foward to hearing from you if any of this is clickable.